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Frequently Asked
Questions (FAQ)
Do you need to have any previous
knowledge of Tantra to do the sessions with the Goddess?
Any knowledge
you'll need before the session I will give you over the phone. Some
people like to read the book first, however I personally like to learn
by experiencing something and then reading about it. So what you read
about afterwards in the chapters I suggest, will have much more meaning
for you seeing you can apply it to your experience. The goddess will
give you the book at the session.
I’ve had a tantric massage. Does the
goddess do that?
She can give an
excellent Tantric massage where you get to experience your sexual
energy running through your body. However, in a massage you are only
receiving, there is no interaction with the woman. You don’t get to
experience her sexual energy or learn anything about what to do with
her. It can be a good introduction if that’s what you prefer or it
suits your budget at the time.
I’ve
heard tantra involves non-ejaculation, is that right?
It
can and there are some benefits. There is definitely a benefit in not
coming too soon so you can allow your woman to go into higher states of
pleasure. Tantra certainly teaches you that. However, having
intercourse without ejaculation may seem a strange idea at first. A lot
of people say: “Well, why make love? That’s the best part!” It appears
to be the best part until you learn how to experience other forms of
orgasm. You are taught ways in Tantra of having an internal orgasm
called a Valley Orgasm – where you feel totally satisfied like after
orgasm, but you don’t feel drained.
This certainly
helps when your sex drive is less than your partners because you can
make love a second, third or fourth time. Of course just hanging on to
it isn’t healthy and it can make you irritable. It’s very important you
are taught ways to spread the sexual energy so that this is not a
concern.
Another benefit
of learning to build energy through non ejaculation is that when you do
come, you will be amazed at how powerful it is and so will your
partner! For a lot of men, as they get older, ejaculation is more like
a blip than a roar.
Most men
think they orgasm when they ejaculate. However ejaculation is only one
form of orgasm and it is small stuff compared to ‘whole body orgasm’.
You learn about this during the sessions
Can these sessions help with
virility and maintaining an erection?
It
is written in the ancient texts of China and India that it was common
for emperors, kings and noblemen trained in the arts of lovemaking to
be passionately making love in their eighties with up to twenty
consorts or lovers, all of whom they were keeping sexually satisfied.
Obviously I am
not suggesting you will be able to do anything like this in one session
but it will certainly give you the secrets of how to work towards a
virile sex life throughout your life.
If
you decide to not do anything about it now, then unfortunately you will
end up like many men with prostate problems, lack of desire or even if
you have the desire, you won’t be able to do anything with it. You can
end up dependent on medication and no-one knows the long term effect of
that. Medication can be helpful on occasion but if you would like to
learn the secrets developed over 2,000 years of study and
experimentation, written about in Tantra which relate to sexual
virility of any age, then this could definitely be a worthwhile
investment for you. You will see results during the sessions.
I
feel a bit nervous about seeing the goddess. I’m a bit over weight and
also I’m not sure I’ll be able to do what’s expected.
Firstly
relax! You will feel very comfortable with her – that’s part of what it
is to be a tantra goddess. Your weight will not be an issue or your age
or her age, or even your experience. You will forget your concerns,
your daily hassles and everything else she will work with who you are
at essence, not your age or how you think you look. In tantra it’s
called your ‘Shiva essence’. Don’t worry it will be so nourishing and
reffeshing to feel so comfortable being with a woman like this.
Also you will
find, it will have lasting and deeper effects with your confidence with
all women. You’ll need to address your lack of confidence with women
sometime; it may as well be now, with someone who can guide you.
Other
questions
Why do you call
the women Goddesses?
In Ancient India
and China and Greece, there were women of the temples who used their
sexuality in a sacred way, as healing and initiation into the mysteries
and secrets of making love.
They were
conduits for the mythological goddesses of love and sexuality like
Aphrodite, Ishta, Venus and Shakti. In modern times, the Tantric
Goddesses you meet in the session will embrace these qualities of
sensuality, sexuality and grace of the ancient Goddess traditions.
The session is
not religious in any way, and will not influence or change your
existing religious beliefs in any way.
Goddess is not
the counterpart of God!
What
is the difference between Tantra Massage and what the Goddess does?
Tantric massage
is a whole body massage. It is a good experience, and any of the
Goddesses on this site can do that. But because you have a good sexual
massage, it doesn't mean you will be any better at making love. You
just lie back and receive it.
The Goddess
Sessions are about what you can do to be a better lover, how to make
love to a woman and to deeply satisfy you and your partner on many
levels.
Here is an
example of what one Goddess does in Session 1:
"I
first speak to Kerry about you and prepare our session accordingly. The
session takes one and a half hours. I start by making you feel
comfortable and relaxed and review some of the things we will be doing.
We then go into the adjoining room, which I call my Temple . It's a
beautiful space where I have candles and music and soft colours. It's a
sacred space, which creates a warm and intimate feeling. I like to
change into transparent Goddess clothing or sensual underwear and have
a robe for you. We do some preparatory things together involving
connecting sexuality with love, showing you how to move your body in
tantric ways that allow the sexual energy that I evoke in you to flow
through us. I guide you to use breath, thought and muscle release to
keep you totally connected to me and so thoroughly absorbed in the
moment that nothing else exists.
While
we are in Yab Yum together in close
embrace, there is a connection between us on all levels and although
you are filled with sexual energy, you feel no urgency to ejaculate
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